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Good Shepherd Lutheran Church Today's Frontline Devotion February 9, 2006 Let's Talk |
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Frontline Devotion for Thursday, February 9, 2006 by Pastor Dave Sonnenberg
“When we are able to talk about something, it becomes much more manageable.” Fred Rogers
Since his death, I’ve learned a lot more about the unique life of Fred Rogers - a.k.a. Mr. Rogers (of the famous PBS Show Mr. Rogers Neighborhood). An ordained Presbyterian minister, Rogers was given one of the most unique calls - namely, to “continue to reach out to children and their families through the media.”
The quote that is at the top of today’s devotion is perhaps the one saying that has stuck with me the most since his death because I believe it to be true. I know it from personal experience- dealing with things in my own heart as well as reaching out to others.
There are many different emotions that we deal with. I know that at times, I get frustrated or upset or angry which gets me “all worked up inside”. One of God’s greatest gifts is people I love (like my wife or some of my closest friends) taking the time to allow me to share what is on my heart. Usually, the process of sharing is all that is needed. The listener need not offer any great wisdom other than their ears and their attentiveness.
At the same time, I know I’ve had to reach out on many occasions to others who are dealing with anger or disappointment. At times, my children have acted up at all in our household and we wonder, “What’s gotten into them? Or “what happened today?” Sometimes it takes some time to figure it out, but it seems that when I can be patient and take the time to allow them to vent, eventually you get to the root of what’s bothering me. “So and so was mean to me.” “I didn’t get picked!” “I didn’t get a prize”. “I’m sad my friend is moving away”.
When someone finally gets to the heart of what is bothering them, it is so much easier to help or provide reassurance. It makes it easier to remind another that their feelings are often legitimate and that’s okay. It makes it easier to show another that they are not alone.
If you have someone you can share openly with, consider it one of life’s greatest gifts. If you can offer it to another - do so! It makes a big difference.
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